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“Our A.A. Experience Has Taught Us That…”

23 Dec

Our Twelve Traditions 

Page 563 in the Alcoholics Anonymous book gives us the Long Form. The short form is on page 562.
The traditions are not part of our new design for living or part of the recovery program—they inform us about UNITY for groups and A.A. as a whole (our society).  “Sponsors” and A.A. guides need to teach what the traditions mean for unity of the fellowship.
12&12, pg 15: 
“A.A.’s Twelve Traditions apply to the life of the Fellowship itself. They outline the means by which A.A. maintains its unity and relates itself to the world about it; the way it lives and grows.”

Pic of Bill WilsonSOME HISTORY:  The following quote excerpts were compiled by Jim Burwell from various talks and articles by Bill Wilson. Here is the link to “Barefoot’s World.”

QUESTION:  What were the conditions that led to the Twelve Traditions? (EXCERPTS– Transcribed from tape. Chicago, IL, February 1951)
After the Jack Alexander article was published in 1941 it brought down a deluge on our little New York office of thousands upon thousands of inquiries from frantic alcoholics, their wives, their employers and at that moment we passed out of our infancy and embarked upon our next phase—the phase of adolescence.
… We made the very sad discovery that just because you sobered up a drunk you haven’t made a saint out of him by a long shot. We found that we could be bitterly resentful and we discovered that we had a much better booze cure than we thought possible. A lot of us found that we could gripe like thunder and still stay sober. We found that we were in all sorts of petty struggles for leadership and prestige. A lot of us were very suspicious of the Book enterprise in the hands of that fellow Wilson who has a truck backed up to Mr. Rockefeller who has all the dough. And we began to have all sorts of troubles.
Money had entered the picture—it had to. We had to hire halls that didn’t come for nothing, the book cost something, we had dinners once in a while. Yes, money came into it.  Then we found little by little that the groups had to have chores done. Who was going to be the Chairman, would we hand pick him or elect him or what? You know what those troubles were and they became so fearsome that we went through another period of flying blind. … we were beginning to wonder in the early part of our adolescence, whether the destructive forces in our groups would rend us apart and destroy the society.
Our little New York office began to be deluged with mail from these groups, growing up at distances and not in contact with our old centers and they were having these troubles…  by a process of fission and sub-division this movement grew and grew and grew. Ten years later, it had spread into thirty countries…
In the early days we all had membership rules. Where have they gone now? We’re not afraid anymore. We open our arms wide, we say we don’t care who you are, what your difficulties are. You just need say, “I’m an alcoholic and I’m interested.” You declare yourself in. Our membership idea is put exactly in reverse.
Years ago we thought this society should go into research and education, to do everything for drunks all the time. We know better now. We have one sole object in this society, we shoemakers are going to stick to our last and we will carry that message to other alcoholics and leave these other matters to the more competent. We will do one thing supremely well rather than many things badly.
… our public relations policy is anonymity at the public level. No advertising of people, principles before personalities. Anonymity has a deep spiritual significance—the greatest protection this movement has.
…The A.A. Tradition developed not because I dictated it but because you people, your experience formed it and I merely set it on paper and tried beginning four years ago (1946) to reflect it back to you. Such were our years of adolescence, and before we leave them I must say that a powerful impetus was given the Traditions by the Gentleman who introduced me. (Earl T.)
One day he came down to Bedford Hills after the long form of the Traditions were written out at some length, because in the office we were forever having to answer questions about Group troubles, so the original Traditions were longer and covered more possibilities of trouble. Earl looked at me rather quizzically and he said “Bill, don’t you get it through your thick head that these drunks do not like to read. They will listen for a while but they will not read anything. Now, you want to capsule these Traditions as simply as are the Twelve Steps to Recovery.”
So he and I started the capsulizing process, which lasted a day or two and that put the Traditions into their present (short) form. Well, by this time we had a lot of experience on these principles, which we began to think might bind us together in unity for so long as God might need us. And at Cleveland (1950), seven thousand of us did declare “Yes, these are the traditional principles upon which we are willing to stand, upon which we can safely commit ourselves to the future, and so we emerged from adolescence. Again, last year we took destiny by the hand.

Have the Traditions been widely accepted? (Transcribed from tape, Fort Worth, TX, 1954)
When they were first written in early 1946 as tentative guides to help us hang together and function, nobody paid any attention except a few “againers” who wrote me and asked what the hell they were about.
Nobody paid the slightest attention but little by little as these Traditions got around we had our clubhouse squabbles, our little rifts, this difficulty and that and it was found that the Traditions indeed did reflect experience and were guiding principles. So they took hold a little more and a little more so that today the average A.A. coming in the door learns at once what they’re about, about what kind of an outfit he has really landed in and by what principles his group and A.A. as a whole are governed.

 

 

The Personal Stories are NOT The 12-Step Program

30 Apr

The 12 Steps are our PROGRAM OF RECOVERY. The pages from The Doctor’s Opinion through page 164 is our textbook—these pages describe this program, giving us ‘clear-cut directions’ for a full recovery from our obsessions.

BB xi, Preface: “Therefore, the first portion of this volume, describing the A.A. recovery program, has been left untouched in the course of revisions made for the second, third, and fourth editions.”
BB xxii, Foreword to Third Edition
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The Twelve Steps that summarize the program may be called los Doce Pasos in one country, les Douze Etapes in another, but they trace exactly the same path to recovery that was blazed by the earliest members of Alcoholics Anonymous.”
BB pages 28-29:
“In the following chapter (More About Alcoholism), there appears an explanation of alcoholism, as we understand it, then a chapter addressed to the agnostic (We Agnostics). Many who once were in this class are now among our members. Surprisingly enough, we find such convictions no great obstacle to a spiritual experience. Further on, clear-cut directions are given showing how we recovered (How It Works) thru page 164 & Dr. Bob’s Nightmare). These are FOLLOWED BY forty-three PERSONAL experiences. Each individual, in the personal stories, describes in HIS OWN language and from HIS OWN POINT OF VIEW the way HE established his relationship with God. These give a fair cross section of our membership and a clear-cut idea of what has actually happened in their lives. We hope no one will consider these self-revealing accounts in bad taste. Our hope is that many alcoholic men and women, desperately in need, will see these pages, and we believe that it is only by fully disclosing ourselves and our problems that they will be persuaded to say, “Yes, I am one of them too; I must have this thing.”
BB p.59, How it Works:
Here are the steps we took, which are suggested as a program of recovery:
BB p.72, Into Action:
“This brings us to the Fifth Step in the program of recovery mentioned in the preceding chapter.(How It Works)

The ‘WE’ of the first 164 pages are the inclusive experiences of the pioneers and the ‘first 100’, which is not the ‘I’ of the personal stories. The Stories help a newcomer to IDENTIFY as an alcoholic. They also describe PERSONAL, SPIRITUAL EXPERIENCES to reassure newcomers that it can happen for them also.

PRECISE instructions: “To show other alcoholics PRECISELY HOW WE HAVE RECOVERED
is the main purpose of this book.”
Pg xiii
An OUTLINED PLAN
“He accepted the PLAN OUTLINED IN THIS BOOK.” Pg xxxi
GREAT NEWS
We have a way out on which we can absolutely agree, and upon which we can join in brotherly and harmonious action. This is the great news this book carries to those who suffer from alcoholism.”
CLEAR-CUT directions
“…clear-cut directions are given.” “If we have carefully followed (these clear-cut) directions, we have begun to sense the flow of His Spirit into us.” Pg 85.

The BB authors clearly told us the stories are NOT part of the program. Each of us will have OUR OWN spiritual experience from OUR OWN efforts at conscience contact with God as WE understand God. We are not expected to have the same spiritual experiences and awarenesses that someone else had.

The 12 traditions were written to UNIFY our society as a whole, and were NOT intended as OUR PERSONAL RECOVERY PROGRAM (the steps are for our RECOVERY). The AA big book was published in 1939—and the traditions weren’t published until 1946.

THE 12 & 12 WAS NEVER INTENDED TO REPLACE OUR BASIC TEXT

HOW DO WE KNOW?:
Pg 17:
“In it (the AA book) alcoholism was described from the alcoholic’s point of view, the spiritual ideas of the Society were codified for the first time in the Twelve Steps, and the application of these Steps to the alcoholic’s dilemma was MADE CLEAR.
The remainder of the book was devoted to thirty stories
or case histories in which the alcoholics described THEIR drinking experiences. This established identification with alcoholic readers and prived to them that the VIRTUALLY IMPOSSIBLE HAD NOW BECOME POSSIBLE.
The book “Alcoholics Anonymous” become the BASIC TEXT OF THE FELLOWSHIP, and IT STILL IS. This present volume (the 12 & 12) proposes to BROADEN AND DEEPEN the understanding of the Twelve Steps as first written in the earlier work.”

WHAT ELSE DOES THE 12 & 12 TELL US in the Foreward?

The STEPS are a new way of living—our PROGRAM: “A.A.’s Twelve STEPS are a group of principles, spiritual in their nature, which, if practiced as a way of life, can expel the obsession to drink and enable the sufferer to become happily and usefully whole.”
The TRADITIONS are intended for continued UNITY of the fellowship:
“A.A.’s Twelve Traditions apply to the life of the Fellowship. They outline the means by which A.A. maintains It’s unity and relates itself to the world about it, the way it lives and grows.”
Page 18
of the Foreword explains the need for the Traditions for the quickly expanding fellowship and the need for UNITY of the society— to help these “great numbers of yet erratic people” to “live and work together with harmony and good effect.”

Understanding the three distinct sides of our Society (the triangle), reinforces that the Steps are intended to be taken for our personal recovery. We need to make this clear for anyone who is sincerely searching for a new way of life.

The third side of our pyramid: The 12 Concepts are the SERVICE part of our society.

Page 574, Appendices: A.A.’s Twelve Steps are principles for personal recovery. The Twelve Traditions ensure the unity of the Fellowship. Written by co-founder Bill W. in 1962, the Twelve Concepts for World Service provide a group of related principles to help ensure that various element of A.A.’s SERVICE STRUCTURE remain responsive  and RESPONSIBLE TO THOSE THEY SERVE.

Bill W gave three major talks at The Second A.A. International Convention in St. Louis, Mo, 1955 (from article by Nancy O.)  “On the first night Bill talked of what he called the first of the three legacies: ‘How We Learned to Recover.’ His second talk dealt with the second legacy ‘How We Learned to Stay Together.’ His third talk was on the third legacy: ‘How We Learned to Serve.’

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ETC— recovered from the obsession but not cured of the allergy
alcoholic in Oregon