More nonsense from the co-dependent, “I don’t want to offend anyone—I want everyone to like me” bunch of half-measures people-pleasers.
What kind of AA mentor would be more concerned with impressing, and not ‘offending’ a bunch of probably non-alcoholic people who are only there to get their court-slip signed—rather than in helping the “I’ve hit-bottom” alcoholic who is ready for help? The fact is, these ‘I-know-it-all-but-the-Big Book’ people may not be real, chronic alcoholics themselves and have never experienced that full spiritual awakening as a result of practicing and living all 12 steps. They cannot transmit something they don’t have (and never worked for) themselves. Sad.
Who is this Program for?
The REAL, HOPELESS ALCOHOLIC who has tried everything to control his/her drinking and now is completely willing to accept a spiritual solution to their dilemma.
“When, therefore, we were approached by those IN WHOM THE PROBLEM HAD BEEN SOLVED, there was NOTHING LEFT FOR US BUT TO PICK UP THE SIMPLE KIT OF SPIRITUAL TOOLS laid at our feet.” Textbook pg. 25. (Aha… that could explain the gurus—they haven’t yet found the solution to their problem.)
A.A groups’ primary purpose is for explaining the new way of life that a hopeless, drowning alcoholic can learn and enjoy “by following a few simple rules” with the “clear-cut directions” that our textbook lays out.
There is a Solution
Read page 25 of the textbook. In fact, if you haven’t read through page 43 a few times and not yet identified yourself as a REAL ALCOHOLIC, you may not need AA at all!
Read pages 44-45 of the textbook. The real alcoholic lacks power and must find a power by which to live… a power GREATER THAN the self-centered, arrogant EGO.
That’s what the book is about—to help REAL ALCOHOLICS to find a greater power—which WILL SOLVE THEIR ALCOHOLIC PROBLEM. The book gives spiritual as well as moral direction and they are very clear that WE ARE GOING TO TALK ABOUT GOD. The textbook mentions God at least 140 times… the 12&12 has more references than that.
The term “God” is generic and not specific to any religion or philosophical belief system. There are many spiritual options for those who are not attracted to a particular DEITY: Buddhism, paganism, the rhythm of nature, Native American, etc. Our textbook mentions many other names for “god.” Read it and find out what they are!
“Something more than human power is needed to produce the essential psychic change” pg. xxix.
If you do not want to talk about God or spirituality—
There are get-sober support groups that are NON-12-step/secular. They rely on their own intellect to stay sober or control their drinking. Or these people may view themselves as a god (tiger blood and the DNA of Adonis, and all that).
Here’s a link to a list of NON-GOD SOBRIETY GROUPS