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A.A.’s Radical Recovery Plan

08 Jan

rad·i·cal  –fundamental: a radical difference;
forming a basis or foundation;
advanced  / favoring drastic reforms; deviating by extremes: especially as regards change from accepted or traditional forms;  thorough going

FOR A FULL RECOVERY (becoming recovered), FOLLOW THE INSTRUCTIONS; THE CLEAR-CUT DIRECTIONS: 

boot printsThe founders and pioneers made a fundamental difference in the outlook for chronic alcoholics. They provided a way out for them by following a ‘few simple rules’ in the plan they outlined in their textbook.  A radical change would result by taking the same “clear-cut directions” that showed how they RECOVERED.  This is the original, strong method. 
LINK
to Excerpts from Gresham’s Law and Alcoholics Anonymous

The A.A. Basic Text:
Big Book coverp. xxvii, The Doctor’s Opinion  

The cases we have followed through have been most interesting; in fact, many of them are amazing.
p. xxix, The Doctor’s Opinion:

On the other hand—and strange as this may seem to those who do not understand — once a psychic change has occurred, the very same person who seemed doomed, who had so many problems he despaired of ever solving them, suddenly finds himself easily able to control his desire for alcohol, the only effort necessary being that required to follow a few simple rules.
p. xxiii, Foreword to Fourth Edition
Like so much of A.A.’s basic text, those words have proved to be far more visionary than the founding members could ever have imagined.
p. xxii, Foreword to Third Edition
The basic principles of the A.A. program, it appears, hold good for individuals with many different lifestyles, just as the program has brought recovery to those of many different nationalities.
p. xxix, The Doctor’s Opinion 
One feels that something more than human power is needed to produce the essential psychic change.
p. xxix, The Doctor’s Opinion
This is repeated over and over, and unless this person can experience an entire psychic change there is very little hope of his recovery.
p. 8, Bill’s Story
I was to know happiness, peace, and usefulness, in a way of life that is incredibly more wonderful as time passes.
p.12, Bill’s Story
Upon a foundation of complete willingness I might build what I saw in my friend.
p. 13, Bill’s Story
Belief in the power of God, plus enough willingness, honesty and humility to establish and maintain the new order of things, were the essential requirements.
p. 14, Bill’s Story
God comes to most men gradually, but His impact on me was sudden and profound.
Belief in the power of God, plus enough willingness, honesty and humility to establish and maintain the new order of things, were the essential requirements.   …
These were revolutionary and drastic proposals, but the moment I fully accepted them, the effect was electric.
p. 27, There Is A Solution
He can go anywhere on this earth where other free men may go without disaster, provided he remains willing to maintain a certain simple attitude.
p.42, More About Alcoholism
But the program of action, though entirely sensible, was pretty drastic.
p.52, We Agnostics
But in most fields our generation has witnessed complete liberation of our thinking.
p. 55, We Agnostics:

Actually we were fooling ourselves, for deep down in every man, woman, and child, is the fundamental idea of God.
p. 59, How It Works
We asked His protection and care with complete abandon.
p. 63, How It Works
This was only a beginning, though if honestly and humbly made, an effect, sometimes a very great one, was felt at once.
p. 65, How It Works
Nothing counted but thoroughness and honesty.
p.68, How It Works
Just to the extent that we do as we think He would have us, and humbly rely on Him, does He enable us to match calamity with serenity.
p. 77, Into Action
Our real purpose is to fit ourselves to be of maximum service to God and the people about us.
p. 83, Into Action
If we are painstaking about this phase of our development, we will be amazed before we are half way through.
p. 84, Into Action
Our whole attitude and outlook upon life will change.
p. 90, Working With Others
Then let his family or a friend ask him if he wants to quit for good and if he would go to any extreme to do so.
p. 98, Working With Others
Some of us have taken very hard knocks to learn this truth: Job or no job—wife or no wife—we simply do not stop drinking so long as we place dependence upon other people ahead of dependence on God.
p.142, To Employers
After satisfying yourself that your man wants to recover and that he will go to any extreme to do so, you may suggest a definite course of action.
p. 143, To Employers
Though you are providing him with the best possible medical attention, he should understand that he must undergo a change of heart.  …
To get over drinking will require a transformation of thought and attitude.
p. 145, To Employers
In fact, he may say almost anything if he has accepted our solution which, as you know, demands rigorous honesty.
p.153, A Vision For You
It may seem incredible that these men are to become happy, respected, and useful once more.
p. 568, Appendix II, Spiritual Experience

Willingness, honesty and open mindedness are the essentials of recovery.
p. 567, Appendix II, Spiritual Experience
The terms “spiritual experience“ and “spiritual awakening“ are used many times in this book which, upon careful reading, shows that the personality change sufficient to bring about recovery from alcoholism has manifested itself among us in many different forms.
p. 567, Appendix II, Spiritual Experience
He finally realizes that he has undergone a profound alteration in his reaction to life; that such a change could hardly have been brought about by himself alone.
p. 570, Appendix III The Medical View on A.A.:
Even among those who occasionally land back in here again, we observe a profound change in personality.  

12&12 p.92
Such a radical change in our outlook will take time, maybe a lot of time.
12&12 p.21, Step One
We perceive that only through utter defeat are we able to take our first steps toward liberation and strength.
12&12 p.22, Step One
When first challenged to admit defeat, most of us revolted. …
The principle that we shall find no enduring strength until we first admit complete defeat is the main taproot from which our whole Society has sprung and flowered.
12&12 p.36, Step Three
Therefore dependence, as A.A. practices it, is really a means of gaining true independence of the spirit.
12&12 p.50, Step Four
By now the newcomer has probably arrived at the following conclusions: that his character defects, representing instincts gone astray, have been the primary cause of his drinking and his failure at life; that unless he is now willing to work hard at the elimination of the worst of these defects, both sobriety and peace of mind will still elude him; that all the faulty foundation of his life will have to be torn out and built anew on bedrock.
12&12 p.59, Step Five
Only by discussing ourselves, holding back nothing, only by being willing to take advice and accept direction could we set foot on the road to straight thinking, solid honesty, and genuine humility.
12&12 p.64, Step Six
So in a very complete and literal way, all A.A.‘s have “become entirely ready“ to have God remove the mania for alcohol from their lives.
12&12 p.70, Step Seven Indeed, the attainment of greater humility is the foundation principle of each of A.A.‘s Twelve Steps.
12&12 p.72, Step Seven
We never thought of making honesty, tolerance, and true love of man and God the daily basis of living.
12&12 p.75, Step Seven
During this process of learning more about humility, the most profound result of all was the change in our attitude toward God.
12&12 p.87, Step Nine
For the readiness to take the full consequences of our past acts, and to take responsibility for the well-being of others at the same time, is the very spirit of Step Nine.
12&12 p.98, Step Eleven
But when they are logically related and interwoven, the result is an unshakable foundation for life.
12&12 p.107, Step Twelve
He finds himself in possession of a degree of honesty, tolerance, unselfishness, peace of mind, and love of which he had thought himself quite incapable.  …
When a man or a woman has a spiritual awakening, the most important meaning of it is that he has now become able to do, feel, and believe that which he could not do before on his unaided strength and resources alone.
12&12 p.114, Step Twelve
And as we grow spiritually, we find that our old attitudes toward our instincts need to undergo drastic revisions.
12&12 p.115, Step Twelve
After we come into A.A., if we go on growing, our attitudes and actions toward security — emotional security and financial security—commence to change profoundly.
12&12 p.131, Tradition One
By faith and by works we have been able to build upon the lessons of an incredible experience.
12&12 p.160, Tradition Seven

This principle is telling evidence of the profound change that A.A. has wrought in all of us.

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ETC, a recovered alcoholic in Oregon—relieved of the obsessions but not cured of the allergy.

 

 

‘Tis The Season

24 Dec

As Jethro Tull sang, “The Christmas Spirit is not what you drink.” 
A few suggestions to keep in mind:

Stay in fit spiritual condition
pg 100 (the context is doing 12-step work—Working With Others): “Assuming we are spiritually fit, we can do all sorts o things alcoholics are not supposed to do…”  pg 102— “Go or stay away, whichever seems best. But be sure you are on solid spiritual ground before you start…”

You may say, “No” to invitations (or expectations) to attend functions where alcohol is served. Don’t let anyone guilt or pressure you into going if you are feeling vulnerable.  Sometimes skipping these (work, family, friend) events IS being willing to do whatever it takes to stay sober.

Check your motives—
pg 101 has questions to ask of yourself:  do you have a good reason to be there or are you really expecting to steal some vicarious pleasure from the atmosphere?  Do you just want to watch others get drunk and make fools of themselves so you can feel righteous about staying sober? Or are you thinking about how you might carry the message (with your new, saner behavior, NOT with preaching or pointing out their flaws)?
Pg 102— Be sure “that your motive in going is thoroughly good…”
pg 103— And remember, “We are careful never to show intolerance or hatred of drinking as an institution.”

If you are in doubt or feeling lonely—
There are marathon meetings and get-togethers in large clubs and various group sober parties.
pg 102— “But if you are shaky, you had better work with another alcoholic instead!”
As Bill W said (pg 14), “For if an alcoholic failed to perfect and enlarge his spiritual life through work and self-sacrifice for others, he could not survive the certain trials and low spots ahead.” Pg 15, “…when all other measures failed, work with another alcoholic would save the day.”

Re-read the 10th-Step promises— (a partial description of the recovered alcoholic) on pgs 84-85.  If you are confident that these are part of your sobriety TODAY, and you have made conscious contact with God, however you understand God—have a good time & Vaya Con Dios.
Drive yourself so you can leave when you want to; bring a sober friend for mutual support; keep your phone numbers handy in case of emergency; repeat the Serenity Prayer; drop your A.A. coin in a drink—if it doesn’t dissolve, don’t drink it, etc.

Merry Christmas and a Happy, Sober New Year to all of you.

 

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ETC, a recovered alcoholic in Oregon—relieved of the obsessions but not cured of the allergy.

 

 

“Our A.A. Experience Has Taught Us That…”

23 Dec

Our Twelve Traditions 

Page 563 in the Alcoholics Anonymous book gives us the Long Form. The short form is on page 562.
The traditions are not part of our new design for living or part of the recovery program—they inform us about UNITY for groups and A.A. as a whole (our society).  “Sponsors” and A.A. guides need to teach what the traditions mean for unity of the fellowship.
12&12, pg 15: 
“A.A.’s Twelve Traditions apply to the life of the Fellowship itself. They outline the means by which A.A. maintains its unity and relates itself to the world about it; the way it lives and grows.”

Pic of Bill WilsonSOME HISTORY:  The following quote excerpts were compiled by Jim Burwell from various talks and articles by Bill Wilson. Here is the link to “Barefoot’s World.”

QUESTION:  What were the conditions that led to the Twelve Traditions? (EXCERPTS– Transcribed from tape. Chicago, IL, February 1951)
After the Jack Alexander article was published in 1941 it brought down a deluge on our little New York office of thousands upon thousands of inquiries from frantic alcoholics, their wives, their employers and at that moment we passed out of our infancy and embarked upon our next phase—the phase of adolescence.
… We made the very sad discovery that just because you sobered up a drunk you haven’t made a saint out of him by a long shot. We found that we could be bitterly resentful and we discovered that we had a much better booze cure than we thought possible. A lot of us found that we could gripe like thunder and still stay sober. We found that we were in all sorts of petty struggles for leadership and prestige. A lot of us were very suspicious of the Book enterprise in the hands of that fellow Wilson who has a truck backed up to Mr. Rockefeller who has all the dough. And we began to have all sorts of troubles.
Money had entered the picture—it had to. We had to hire halls that didn’t come for nothing, the book cost something, we had dinners once in a while. Yes, money came into it.  Then we found little by little that the groups had to have chores done. Who was going to be the Chairman, would we hand pick him or elect him or what? You know what those troubles were and they became so fearsome that we went through another period of flying blind. … we were beginning to wonder in the early part of our adolescence, whether the destructive forces in our groups would rend us apart and destroy the society.
Our little New York office began to be deluged with mail from these groups, growing up at distances and not in contact with our old centers and they were having these troubles…  by a process of fission and sub-division this movement grew and grew and grew. Ten years later, it had spread into thirty countries…
In the early days we all had membership rules. Where have they gone now? We’re not afraid anymore. We open our arms wide, we say we don’t care who you are, what your difficulties are. You just need say, “I’m an alcoholic and I’m interested.” You declare yourself in. Our membership idea is put exactly in reverse.
Years ago we thought this society should go into research and education, to do everything for drunks all the time. We know better now. We have one sole object in this society, we shoemakers are going to stick to our last and we will carry that message to other alcoholics and leave these other matters to the more competent. We will do one thing supremely well rather than many things badly.
… our public relations policy is anonymity at the public level. No advertising of people, principles before personalities. Anonymity has a deep spiritual significance—the greatest protection this movement has.
…The A.A. Tradition developed not because I dictated it but because you people, your experience formed it and I merely set it on paper and tried beginning four years ago (1946) to reflect it back to you. Such were our years of adolescence, and before we leave them I must say that a powerful impetus was given the Traditions by the Gentleman who introduced me. (Earl T.)
One day he came down to Bedford Hills after the long form of the Traditions were written out at some length, because in the office we were forever having to answer questions about Group troubles, so the original Traditions were longer and covered more possibilities of trouble. Earl looked at me rather quizzically and he said “Bill, don’t you get it through your thick head that these drunks do not like to read. They will listen for a while but they will not read anything. Now, you want to capsule these Traditions as simply as are the Twelve Steps to Recovery.”
So he and I started the capsulizing process, which lasted a day or two and that put the Traditions into their present (short) form. Well, by this time we had a lot of experience on these principles, which we began to think might bind us together in unity for so long as God might need us. And at Cleveland (1950), seven thousand of us did declare “Yes, these are the traditional principles upon which we are willing to stand, upon which we can safely commit ourselves to the future, and so we emerged from adolescence. Again, last year we took destiny by the hand.

Have the Traditions been widely accepted? (Transcribed from tape, Fort Worth, TX, 1954)
When they were first written in early 1946 as tentative guides to help us hang together and function, nobody paid any attention except a few “againers” who wrote me and asked what the hell they were about.
Nobody paid the slightest attention but little by little as these Traditions got around we had our clubhouse squabbles, our little rifts, this difficulty and that and it was found that the Traditions indeed did reflect experience and were guiding principles. So they took hold a little more and a little more so that today the average A.A. coming in the door learns at once what they’re about, about what kind of an outfit he has really landed in and by what principles his group and A.A. as a whole are governed.

 

 

Happy, Joyous, and Free

08 Dec

Happy, Joyous, and Free does not mean it’s okay for me to be complacent and rest on my laurels.

Nor that from now on it is my happiness that counts because “God just wants me to be happy.”  Rather, our cheerfulness shows that with God’s power, we have recovered… Life has taken on a new meaning.
The joy of good living is the theme of A.A.’s Twelfth Step. In many references, the founders and authors emphasized that a sane and useful recovery was an example to beginners.  They also discussed many ways the family might interact and treat each other—healing for families was clearly a priority.

In the A.A. Basic Text:

Big Book coverOn page 133—We are sure God wants us to be happy, joyous, and free. We cannot subscribe to the belief that this life is a vale of tears, though it once was just that for many of us. But it is clear that we made our own misery. God didn’t do it. Avoid then, the deliberate manufacture of misery, but if trouble comes, cheerfully capitalize it as an opportunity to demonstrate His omnipotence.
On page 132— “But we aren’t a glum lot. If newcomers could see no joy or fun in our existence, they wouldn’t want it.  We absolutely insist on enjoying life.”
On page 128— “We have indulged in spiritual intoxication.  Like a gaunt prospector, belt drawn in over the last ounce of food, our pick struck gold.  Joy at our release from a lifetime of frustration knew no bounds. Father (newcomer) feels he has struck something better than gold… he has barely scratched the limitless lode which will pay dividends only if he mines it for the rest of his life and insists on giving away the entire product.”
On page 130, The Family Afterward— “We have found nothing incompatible between a powerful spiritual experience and a life of sane and happy usefulness.”
On page 163-164, A Vision For You— “When a few men in this city have found themselves, and have discovered the joy of helping others to face life again, there will be no stopping until everyone in that town has had his opportunity to recover—if he can and will.
On page 15, Bill’s Story—The joy of living we really have, even under pressure and difficulty. I have seen hundreds of families set their feet in the path that really goes somewhere… there is scarcely any form of trouble and misery which has not been overcome among us.”
On page 17, There Is A Solution “Unlike the feelings of the ship’s passengers, however, our joy in escape from disaster does not subside as we go our individual ways.”
On page 62, How It Works “Most good ideas are simple, and this concept was the keystone of the new and triumphant arch through which we passed to freedom.
On page 160, A Vision For You— “Many a man, yet dazed from his hospital experience, has stepped over the threshold of that home into freedom.”
On page xxi, Foreword to Second Edition— “Yet it is our great hope that all those who have as yet found no answer may begin to find one in the pages of this book and will presently join us on the high road to a new freedom.”
On page 83, Into Action— “We are going to know a new freedom and a new happiness.”

From the A.A. Twelve and Twelve:

12&12 p.70, Step Seven— “Nearly all A.A.’s have found, too, that unless they develop much more of this precious quality than may be required just for sobriety, they still haven’t much chance of becoming truly happy.”
12&12 p.99, Step Eleven Prayer—
“Lord, make me a channel of thy peace. . .that where there is sadness, I may bring joy.”
12&12 p.106, Step Twelve—The joy of living is the theme of A.A.’s Twelfth Step, and action is its key word.”
12&12 p.110, Step Twelve—
“Practically every A.A. member declares that no satisfaction has been deeper and no joy greater than in a Twelfth Step job well done.
12&12 p.125, Step Twelve—
“Understanding is the key to right principles and attitudes, and right action is the key to good living; therefore the joy of good living is the theme of A.A.’s Twelfth Step.”
12&12 p.112, Step Twelve— “Can we find a new joy of living in trying to do something about all these things?”
12&12 p.124, Step Twelve— “Still more wonderful is the feeling that we do not have to be specially distinguished among our fellows in order to be useful and profoundly happy.”
12&12 p.114, Step Twelve—
“Only by this means can we improve our chances for really happy and useful living.
12&12 p.112, Step Twelve— “We are sober and happy in our A.A. work.”

This information assures us that knowing happiness, joy, and freedom, happens as a result of living this new way of life (if I follow all the instructions) and that this is a great example to newcomers of what a spiritual way of living gives us. We cannot keep this joy unless we also give it away.  Recovery must be worked for but the feelings of happiness, joyfulness, and freedom are gifts that we cannot demand or even expect.

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ETC, a recovered alcoholic in Oregon—relieved of the obsessions but not cured of the allergy.